I so can't imagine that - how did you lose it all?

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Personally i have huge hangups about my figure...im a large 14 and a 34FF and about 5ft 7 (41-34-44)
I have always placed so much emphasis on my boobs because it is the bit i felt confident about...that and my hair was always the things i got attention/compliments on...i always hated my thighs, hips and bum and tummy, but in all honesty, after speaking to alot of my male freinds they have all said that my hips make me look like a woman and through studying certain parts of evolutionary psychology the apparent better looking body shpae has a wasit to hip ratio of 0.6-0.8 (waist/hips) BUT this is for ALL sizes even a size 30 woman who has this ratio is seen as more attractive...

Its all down to individual preferences... some men like legs, bums or boobs, some go for overall look, one of my friends even said its the conversation and brain of a women he goes for ( I know sorry girls hes already married!!!)

Its all each to their own!

Personally i feel judged that i need to be a slim hipped petite tanned toned small pert boobied woman to be atractive in mens eyes, but it just isnt the case...

You work what youve got! its the confidence that will be most appealing!

xxxx

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over the years my boobs have gone up from 30b to 32dd or d depending on the shop - that really bugs me!!! in debenhams a d fits perfectly, in la senza is far too small and in m&s i have an inch gap at the top lol! drives me mad sometimes

one of my friends was a 34ff and she used to absolutely hate them and wanted to get a reduction. now she is trying to get into modelling and she has been working out and losing weight so her boobs have shrunk so she wants to get implants!

anyway boobs are overrated, i would quite happily swap mine for nice slim calves cos mine are horrible and big like a rugby player

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I don't understand why some women feel the need to consider themselves beautiful based on what the media says.

In Burlesque, everyone seems to be thoroughly supportive of everyone else, regardless of shape or size, and I love it (coming from a dance background where we were expected to be size 0 twiglets, it's very refreshing!)

Men like women in all shapes and sizes and we shouldn't feel inadequite because we're not all like Kelly Brook![/QUOTE]

Well said Dani, seeing as I recently asked a question about larger performers which I got lots of response to that allowed me to see that it does not matter what you have or have not but how comfortable you are with it and your confidence.

Personally I love my boobs and my bum .... its the bit in the middle I dislike but I am working on it and also on my acceptance of it.... my tummy.

darling you are loverly and your other half must think so to....and that can make all the difference.

embrace what you have and be proud of your pert bust and every thing else that you have.... its all you and that is what matters.

La Senza do seem to size small - I need a D cup in there but a C cup most other places. I wonder if it's the bra equivalent of vanity sizing?

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Haha!!!!!!!!

Please don't burst my bubble Fleur!!!! I am happily a 34C in la senza and chuffed with that, don't tell me that I have to go down to a B elsewhere!!!!!! Gutted!!!!!!!

kisses
PixieParasol

p.s. Think this means I will ALWAYS have to go to la senza for bras now!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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Lordy - don't envy anyone their large boobs!

In the summer it's like carrying around two plates of mince in front of you that you can't set down anywhere.
You can't go bra-less comfortably unless you *want* to take someone's eye out with a swinging tit.
Nice bras never seem to go up to big boob sizes.
Nice clothes tend to be geared towards smaller boobs (well smaller than mine).
You can never be sure whether a guy is interested in you for your shining personality or just your tits.

Nooooo, it's not all fun having big boobs.

Now - long legs, that would be GREAT!!!!

AliX

At last measuring i was 45-38-45 (I ain't tiny!) 34HH, and believe me i wish they were a LOT smaller!

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Someone wise once told me that "as far as women are concerned, boobs only come in two sizes, too big or to small" . Please relax, you are all beautifull.

Down to the numbers, I used to work at a clothing retailer, looking after databases, I ran a size analysis on the bra sales in the UK, B cup is definitely the UK average, C is next, but there are as many A's as there are D's

As for what men think, actually most of the time bigger is not always better, its all about proportion and shape, not overall size, extra large might get noticed, but its not always desired.

Also I think its the hips/waist shape that really defines a shape as feminine, not the chest per say, something I try, unsuccessfully, to achieve.

My boobs come in cardboard boxes BTW, I can vary the size, but I fully understand just how heavy and inconvenient large ones are, so I usually stick with a B unless its special occasion.

Beatrix I feel that society judges people on their assets.
Because of the media.
Which then makes me feel inadequate to men and women really.
xxoo

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