Indeedy!!Very cute!

awwwwwwwww you lot are so sweet!!!!!!!!

well today i am suffering quite a hangover....half a bottle of vodka does not sit well!!! lol!

Had a girly night with my best friend last night and we both agreed that the relationship has obviously run its course and im obviously not happy and its no use staying for the nice house!!! and the dog is a given she is coming with me!!!

but thanks very much everyone for the compliments, its nice to know ive still got it!!!

alex
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Let us know how it goes x

I'm glad you came to that decision - I saw that 'lose 2 stone' comment and my heart broke for you. I was reading the rest of the thread wanting to reach into the screen!

Y'see if you had hypothetically lost that 2 stone to be attractive to him, there would be something else to change, then something else to change... It's a subtle form of bullying, psychological control and 'keeping the upper hand', but so insidious you don't see it as bullying until your self-esteem is crippled. By which point you can't do much about it anyway.

There are plenty more out there (who will be positively queueing after that photo! My fella would've fallen off his chair - wish I looked like that), and finding mutual respect with someone is worth all the cute houses in the street.

You're worth infinitely more than that, we all are. Best of luck. You've still got it, alright!

Clare x

All through College I had a friend who was voluptous and drop dead gorgeous. The guy she was with constantly commented on her weight, making remarks about how sexy he found Calista Flockheart etc (it was a long time ago when ally mcbeal had just started). He wore down her confidence which was so depressing for us to see but she thought that he loved her and only had her best intrest at heart .
Then when she did begin to lose weight he started to moan about the fact her wonderful curves were vanishing. Then he started on her Wardrobe choices, hair etc. Luckily she realised how much of an idiot he was and made the choice to leave him (Telling him he was just too skinny for her).

Life is too short to accept all that crap. And if you won't be happily married then don't get married. He'll be the same person after that he is now.

thanks hunnies,

bit of a text argument has started between us about 5 mins ago....

a lot of the issues are coming out now so at least its broken the ice for tonight...

Good luck with telling him. Miss D is right - I wanted to reach into the screen and give you a hug as well when I read that comment. Lose two stone to be attractive??? Whhhhhat a cock. You look fab, and someone like that will just wear you down... you don't always notice whilst it's happening, I know from experience.

thanks hun...thats pretty much what i called him when he said it!!!

I'm thinking of you sweetie, really hope it goes well.

Glad you've come to a decision you are happy with. I know it might be hard but, trust me, it will be SO worth it in the end.

Let us know how it goes xx

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Hey honey you are absolutely stunning - and don't ever let anyone make you think otherwise.

I'm glad you've come to a decision about him, he really doesn't sound like he's worth it. I've had some rubbish boyfriends but none of them have ever told me I was too fat or my boobs were too small or my bum too big. Anyone who would say that sort of thing doesn't deserve you. Hope everything goes ok!

xxx