oh that made me giggle!!!

its only of late he has been like this (say past yr or so - the occasional comment before then)

Its not like he is gods gift either he is 6'3 and 11.5 stone built like a whippet!!!!
But yes i have worse names for him than that....

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pssst ( another fella who is after me adored the corset and wants a private showing lol!!!said i was gorgeous even with no make up and tracky bottoms on!!! lol!) he he he!!

I agree with Midnight Blue-if you have any doubts, don't do it. Just ask yourself whether you want to spend the rest of your life with this person if he doesn't make you feel special every day.

You are truly gorgeous and most men I know love curves and there are lots who would kill to be with a woman like you. AND I'm not just saying that!

Go out there and find yourself a man who adores you AND your body. Betcha there's loads out there!

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i know i suppose i got stuck in the wisteria lane fantasy of nice detached house, nice car, dog, future family etc.....but im only 25!! plenty more fish in the sea!!

And looking down the line, in ten years do you think you'd be blissfully happy or horribly miserable?
With my ex I just couldn't picture a future that wouldn't involve one of us not sulking or being upset or either of us feeling happy. This one however I can see myself being with for a long time yet. Sometimes it's worth taking the plunge, leaving a dead end relation ship for the unknown.

However if you see yourself being happy and fulfilled with him, house, kiddies, dogs or homeless and childless, then maybe it's just stress and pre wedding jitters.

But one piece of advice I was given was "He'll never try quite as hard after your wedding day as he did before". (Although I have seen some guys who prove there are exceptions) The flip side of that comment was for guys - "Take a look as she walks down the aisle. She'll never try as hard to look as good as this again"

Jeez my love - if that's what he thinks then he doesn't deserve any woman at all - let alone a lovely siren like you.

Seriously, run for the hills - or even better, make him run. The beginning of relationships are the times when people are supposed to make the most effort, so what's he going to be like in five or ten years time? The person that you marry should make you feel special and secure and should not take cruel pot shots at you when they don't know what they're talking about.

Good luck with breaking the news. Just remember that you are worth so much more.

x

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Firstly you look AMAZING in that picture.

I think you should tell him to sling his hook.

Also if he is being like this before you are married, the chances are he will be the same when your married. Cos people think that once they are married they don't have to try as hard as they are definately with them now.

You deserve so much better, you are a beautiul women.

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Like I said before, you are stunning!

Maybe it is just pre-wedding jitters, only you can tell that. If he makes you feel bad regularly though, and if you are often upset by him then it isn't worth it. It will just be so much more effort in the long run.

You deserve to be with someone who makes you happy, who makes you laugh, makes you smile and who you can't wait to spend the rest of your life with. Think long and hard about why you are with this guy, and if it's not any of those, then it is probably best to leave while you can.

Or maybe tell him you are having doubts and postpone the wedding? I guess there is a chance he would leave after that, but that would just show he doesn't deserve you.. if he isn't willing to keep hold of you no matter what.

Only you know what's right, and whatever your decision we will all back you up and support you in that

Hope it all goes ok

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Ooh what alovely figure in that corset!!! And those hold ups!!!!!!

I agree with everyone else, if you have any little doubts, or if you find other guys attractive and think about being with them you should cancel the wedding xxx

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You look stunning!! you have a wonderful figure ;-) xx

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