Hi ChaosKitty, and welcome. Have a nose around the site, you will find it very interesting, and your misgivings about your hubby have been aired many times before, don't worry, we will win him over too, eventually.
For everyone else, back at the turn of the New Year 2006/07. James started the Newbie Thread. I told him, at the time, to make it the welcoming page for everyone who joins, but he wouldn't listen. So you try naggimg him. But for your delectation and pleasure, have a sneaky peek at some of the names you know so well, and see their trepidation as they posted for the first time.:
http://www.ministryofburlesque.com/b...ro-thread.html