They say "degrading", I say "delightful."
I have to live a bit of a double life being a (highly educated) public school teacher and all, so the scorn I most definitely understand.
I live in a small town/city where burlesque is not a common practice. Canadian dames often travel a great deal in order to get gigs, and often it means you make NO MONEY. It's just not a cash cow. By the time you buy/make your costumes and props, you have to make sure you're going to make enough on the door to cover your booking costs for the stage and your travel expenses. We do it for love, and sometimes at the cost of a bad review.
Last show in town a gentleman was tossed from the pub due to reaching up on stage and popping one of the performers balloons during a balloon dance. Disrespect isn't tolerated. Near the end of the night I can't imagine any lady wishing to perform for a gaggle of drunken louts though, hollering things like "show us your tits" while a lady's doing her best to perform artistically; good thing their girlfriends are all there to see their boorish behaviour!
Burlesque isn't for everyone, but it's no trip to the peel-n-steal. (No offence intended, everyone makes their money somehow.) Equating the two is like saying modern dance is anti-feminist. The public needs to be educated on the truths of Burlesques merits, but alas. Sometimes it's easiest to just brush it off as common ignorance.
I'll just keep wearing my tassels and adorn myself with my "This is what a feminist looks like" pin every day.
Keep your chins up and strut with pride.