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06-05-2008, 12:27 PM
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is mulling his or her status!
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ta very muchly!!!!
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06-05-2008, 12:31 PM
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Wanton woman of the outback.
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Originally Posted by blitzgrrl
He's realised that it's not so much sexual titillation as much as a celebration of confidence.
He's aware I aim to be a performer and now really supports it.
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I have to agree, as long as he can see what burlesque really means he'll most likely be very supportive. I've been pretty lucky as my fella is the creative type (script writing), and we've had many a conversation about Burlesque and performing and what I get out of it (a huge confidence kick and creative fulfillment). It would be a different matter if I was lap dancing for cash.
Not to say that a burly audience doesn't appreciate the body they see on stage, but there is more respect as a performer which makes me more comfortable. Again, not slagging off stripping, any womans choice is entirely her own, but it's not for me and my partner wouldn't be able to deal with it either. I'm getting off track here!
On a different note, I simply can't create routines in front of him!  It really puts me off! But maybe that is fairly normal.
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06-05-2008, 12:43 PM
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is mulling his or her status!
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Originally Posted by Bella De Jac
I have to agree, as long as he can see what burlesque really means he'll most likely be very supportive. I've been pretty lucky as my fella is the creative type (script writing), and we've had many a conversation about Burlesque and performing and what I get out of it (a huge confidence kick and creative fulfillment). It would be a different matter if I was lap dancing for cash.
Not to say that a burly audience doesn't appreciate the body they see on stage, but there is more respect as a performer which makes me more comfortable. Again, not slagging off stripping, any womans choice is entirely her own, but it's not for me and my partner wouldn't be able to deal with it either. I'm getting off track here!
On a different note, I simply can't create routines in front of him! It really puts me off! But maybe that is fairly normal. |
lol! i agree and so does he...he knows its not strripping for cash or anything seedy! thank god! but only has a vague idea of what it involves!
Have just spoken to him on phone and he is gonna see if he can change his shift so he can come watch! i really love him at times!!! lol! 
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06-05-2008, 12:48 PM
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is in the process of costume making
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My partner is really supportive about burlesque with me.
He gives me advice on routines and costumes, which is always great as another set of eyes helps put things into perspective.
I know this as I recently asked him how he felt about me doing burlesque performace, I only asked him because people started to ask me what he thought about it, as it never occured to me that it might be a problem.
But when I asked him he said that he didn't mind as he could see that it made me happy and that he loves to see me happy. Plus he thinks it pretty cool too.
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06-05-2008, 03:03 PM
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is mulling his or her status!
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thats great trixie rose! to be honest, i think oncec my fiance has an idea of what its all about he will be fine!
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06-05-2008, 04:34 PM
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was a nice pie.
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I'm not a performer, but my boyfriend loves burlesque. I was a bit annoyed though, when we went to the GoGo Cage last month, and I was talking about the narrative/humourous side to the act, and he told me "I think you missed the point" (meaning the 'point' was the stripping). I shouted at him a bit, hah. I have no problem with him enjoying the stripping (I did too!), just try to appreciate the rest of it as well!
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06-05-2008, 07:11 PM
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Wanton woman of the outback.
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Originally Posted by nicepie
I'm not a performer, but my boyfriend loves burlesque. I was a bit annoyed though, when we went to the GoGo Cage last month, and I was talking about the narrative/humourous side to the act, and he told me "I think you missed the point" (meaning the 'point' was the stripping). I shouted at him a bit, hah. I have no problem with him enjoying the stripping (I did too!), just try to appreciate the rest of it as well!
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Haha! I can just imagine doing exactly the same thing if someone said that to me (that I was missing the point) and get very ranty!  I can't help it, it comes out like a tirade until I realise they're just having a little tease. Well I suppose you can't help what you're passionate about! |
06-05-2008, 08:07 PM
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mischief maker....
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Originally Posted by DivaHollywood
I wondered why he was so tired lately, stop wearing him out you I want my go lol
Diva x
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Zzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzzz I'm exhausted now ........ over to you!!!!!!!!!!!!  |
06-05-2008, 09:07 PM
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Wonky on the inside wicked on the outside
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Cheeky lol
Diva x
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06-05-2008, 09:58 PM
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was a nice pie.
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Originally Posted by Bella De Jac
Haha! I can just imagine doing exactly the same thing if someone said that to me (that I was missing the point) and get very ranty! I can't help it, it comes out like a tirade until I realise they're just having a little tease. Well I suppose you can't help what you're passionate about! |
I thought, imagine if I'd told him that he was missing the point of 'black metal', and it's really ALL about the corpse-paint.....
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