Thread: Burlesque and Dating!

Ooh sounds promising!

Originally Posted by December Charm

Ooh sounds promising!

You are always so darned positive December xxx It's good, but can't see it as a long term thing. Will just enjoy it while it lasts.

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PixieParasol

Originally Posted by PixieParasol

You are always so darned positive December xxx It's good, but can't see it as a long term thing. Will just enjoy it while it lasts.

And that's exactly what you should do. You never know what might happen

Jst want to say Lilly I totally agree with u.I am a student but I am glam every day and jst love to be Burley.The blokes at college found it interesting at first but then couldnt handle it at all ,because I am not like the bleach blonde straightener crowd :daft:God give me strength. I love my own individual style what you see is what get.You should never have to change for a man.I did that when I was married and became very ill.You should be who you want to be and live your life by your rules .Viva individuality and imagination. lol xx:lol:

My Christmas Day TV schedule includes a pause at 3.50pm to cry into the sleeve of the cardigan I bought myself. Unless you want to meet up for crazy post-turkey sex ?? No ?? Anyhow --- Happy Christmas darling.
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Originally Posted by PixieParasol

Anyway - just going to enjoy it for now and see how it goes. Still very early days, maybe I'm just overthinking things!!!!!!!

Best way of doing things. I did that with my OH three years ago - when we got together we were sure it was only going to be a fling because we would both be leaving Derby about a month later. That never happened, we decided that after that time, actually, we wanted to stay together, and three years later, here we are ...

Originally Posted by PixieParasol

Only trouble is he ultimately wants to settle down and have kids which kind of rules me out. Although we could have a fun relationship in the meantime I don't want to spend lots of time and emotion on someone who will have to move on to fulfill their dreams.

That worries me sometimes. The boy told me very early on that he wanted to have kids someday in the (far) future, and I told him I never wanted to because I'm not the maternal type. Sometimes I think that we won't last the distance because he'll choose the chance to have a family over me. But when we first discussed it, we decided that the future didn't matter - we'd rather be happy and have fun together than be miserable on our own wondering 'what if'. So you'll spend lots of time and emotion on him and he moves on - isn't that better than not spending it on anyone and being unhappy in the meantime?

Just enjoy it and see what happens. You may well find that your worries are completely unfounded!

:winkgrin:Ohoooo ur sooo naughty but I do like uhu. xxx

Originally Posted by Fleur du Mal

Best way of doing things. I did that with my OH three years ago - when we got together we were sure it was only going to be a fling because we would both be leaving Derby about a month later. That never happened, we decided that after that time, actually, we wanted to stay together, and three years later, here we are ...



That worries me sometimes. The boy told me very early on that he wanted to have kids someday in the (far) future, and I told him I never wanted to because I'm not the maternal type. Sometimes I think that we won't last the distance because he'll choose the chance to have a family over me. But when we first discussed it, we decided that the future didn't matter - we'd rather be happy and have fun together than be miserable on our own wondering 'what if'. So you'll spend lots of time and emotion on him and he moves on - isn't that better than not spending it on anyone and being unhappy in the meantime?

Just enjoy it and see what happens. You may well find that your worries are completely unfounded!

Aww - Fleur, you're a regular dose of sunshine sweetie xxx

We'll see, early days yet. Can't even co-ordinate our hectic Christmas diaries for a second date yet sobsob!!!! But it's definately on the cards. Just wanted to be upfront with him about not being able to have any more children as he mentioned wanting them. Also, with me having children already it could be a smack in the face for a guy who REALLY wants kids of his own.

Will be nice to just spend time with someone for a change and if it doesn't work out - at least I've had fun trying....teehee!!!!

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PixieParasol

ps, Fleur........I'm also the worlds least maternal person - how I managed to have 3 is (almost!!) a complete mystery to me. Certainly wasn't in my 'life plan' (haha!!). But I DO love 'em xxx

Originally Posted by PixieParasol

ps, Fleur........I'm also the worlds least maternal person - how I managed to have 3 is (almost!!) a complete mystery to me. Certainly wasn't in my 'life plan' (haha!!). But I DO love 'em xxx

I'm ultra-maternal but don't plan on having children. As much as I adore them, I'd just prefer to be around children from 9 until 3 and then go home to a quiet peaceful home.

You never know though, I wouldn't rule them out completely.

Originally Posted by December Charm

I'm ultra-maternal but don't plan on having children. As much as I adore them, I'd just prefer to be around children from 9 until 3 and then go home to a quiet peaceful home.

You never know though, I wouldn't rule them out completely.

It's funny sometimes that life has this great plan mapped out for us!!!! Children were DEFINATELY not part of MY equation!!!!! But I wouldn't be without them now though. However I can totally understand how and why some people make the choice NOT to have them and I'm always surprised that people see that as a negative thing. I'm all for the right to choose if you want to have children or not and not to feel bullied or pressured into it as I know some people sadly are!!!!

However, I also have many single, female friends who really, really want to have children and feel soooo sad that they haven't met the right man to help them achieve this. Sometimes life is SO unfair.

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PixieParasol