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Originally Posted by heathersweet
I wouldn't dream of making a routine up especially for the sake of a guy in the bedroom. Nope Nope Nope. All for empowerment and sexuall liberation but if the whole reason for a woman attending a burlesque class is to please a guy it sets the gender role at a hole new low.
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Indeed. I don't even do sexy in my routines - I make a conscious effort not to make them overtly sexy (except the Noir one, but then, that's why I'm uncomfortable doing it). The OH doesn't quite believe me and says it will always be seen as sexual purely because I have very few clothes on. But if people can't separae nudity from sex that's their interpretation, not mine. If an audience sees my act as sexy then that's just a bonus, but hopefully it's secondary, because it's not what I'm trying to put across.
Besides, I'd feel a right prat trying to act all sexy, even if it was just for my man in the bedroom - I'd only embarrass myself!