Hey lovely lady - I meant to write on here sooner, but didn't really know what to say to make you feel better
Just going to add to what everyone else has said and put and enthusiastic "hear hear!" for all the advice. It sound like you need lots of cuddles and hot chocolate!
If you want to PM me and have a good old rant, feel free (dr. dani is on the line people :P ) and I'm not that far from you so if you ever want to meet up somewhere and have a bottle of wine (or 2, or 3...) just let me know.
In the meantime, sending cyberhugs
