I was waiting for a reply from Viva before I posted again so I could put up any tips she gave me, but I've delayed replying a bit too long so;

first of all a big thank you to everyone who advised me, especially Kittie, Kitten and Charisma for pointing me towards ballet! second I've found some drop-in ballet lessons locally on Monday nights and I'm going to start attending them starting this Monday. still wondering how I'll be able to take what I've learned and adapt it into doing cancan but for now I shouldn't be trying to run before I can walk - I'm just starting off starting off after all