I hate to sound negative here doll, but it sounds to me like he's using you. He's got the best of both worlds here, hasn't he? He gets you on tap whenever he wants some love and affection, but he's free to go out and pull other girls when you're not around. If he's warning you not to come out because he might pull, then he's probably hinting that he's done it before. And naturally you can't complain about that because you're not in a relationship any more, so why would he stop?

I'm sorry if I sound harsh, and I'm aware I don't know everything that's going on, but I think you have to be aware of this possibility. If it is the case, then he's not going to be the first to stop seeing you if he thinks he can get whatever he wants from you whenever he wants. But do you really want to be seen like that? Do you want to be that girl? Waiting around to see someone you care about, but only getting that affection when he's ready and on his terms? Think long and hard about the situation you're in and whether you really want to be there.

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